Wonderful Wisdom from Margie Warrell, Executive Life Coach, Women’s Advocate & Author

“One of my favorite sayings is ‘You get what you tolerate.’ This applies in spades to your relationships. Failing to speak up about something carries the implication that you are OK with it—that you are prepared to continue tolerating it. As a companion saying goes, ‘Silence means consent.’ If you tolerate snide or offensive remarks from your boss or colleague, the remarks will continue. If you tolerate your spouse’s lack of consideration for your feelings, it will continue. If you tolerate the disregard of people who regularly turn up late for meetings or social engagements, they will continue to keep you cooling your heels. If you tolerate your child’s lack of respect, you will continue to get no respect. Each time you tolerate a behavior, you are subtly teaching that person that it is OK to treat you that way.”

Margie Warrell, Find Your Courage!

Executive Life Coach, Women’s advocate, Author

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